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Does it have to be that complicated?

Do you find that you complicate things such as tasks, ideas, goals, and life in general? Perhaps you have an idea for something you want to do in life or a change you want to make, and the next thing you know you’ve made the journey so complex that you’ve lost the original intention or the steps you created to take you from start to finish—or both. Suddenly there are lots of side roads popping up that look very attractive, and you veer off your intended path, maybe for a short time or maybe for a long time. Eventually you notice that you have no idea where you are or even how you got there. Your head is muddled. You’re overwhelmed. And you can’t seem to make headway on what you know deep down to be the thing you really want to make happen for your life. Sometimes you give up. Sometimes you come back to it years later. And sometimes you start over. And over. And over again.

I’m really good at complicating life. I get crystal clear on the direction I want to take, why I want to take it, and the steps to get me there. Then, I falter. There are many reasons for that. It may be about self-confidence, expectations of others, responsibilities that I perceive take precedence (sometimes rightly so/sometimes not), comparison to others, or fears that I won’t succeed (or maybe that I will). Sometimes I think another path is really the right way to go because someone else took it and found success, or it seems like a different path would be more acceptable. A new impulse grabs me, so I change direction, and then everything is all mixed up. I’ve lost the clarity I began with, and I end up not realizing my goal or seeing my dream come true. I’ve made it all too complicated.

Can (the process of) creating what we want for our lives be simplified?

I was recently in a training program focused on strategic planning. The facilitator showed us the four tools we would use to create our plan. Before trying any of the tools, one participant asked about using additional tools because he thought that only four tools would limit his thinking and not help him create a robust plan. They seemed too simplistic to him. The facilitator’s response was very wise. She challenged him to use just one of the four tools for the task at hand. And she asked him to consider that what might seem like a limitation is actually an invitation to be even more productive and creative than he could imagine. She suggested taking this one step, getting curious, experimenting, and sticking with it to see what would develop.

Since, for me, pretty much everything in life is a creative pursuit, her advice reminded me of a practice that artists use when they want to challenge their creativity and simplify their process. They limit their color palette or the materials they’ll use to produce their work. They know that doing this helps them dive deeply into their process, intuitive voice, and inner knowing; it frees them to see what will reveal itself within this seeming limitation. In fact, they find that with this very conscious choice to simplify they experience three powerful outcomes:

  1. Enhance and master their creativity and their craft.
  2. Make decisions more quickly and confidently.
  3. Create work that is cohesive, harmonious, timeless, iconic and enduring.

When you think about what you want to create in your life, how do any or all these three outcomes resonate with you?

If I think about these outcomes in terms of one of my goals—to amplify my business and attract more clients—all three definitely resonate with me. The first has been part of my journey for many years, so it’s a given that I’ll continue to enhance my skills and creatively hone my craft. The two that most resonate for me right now are the second and third outcomes. If I can move more quickly and decisively, I’ll be more confident staying on my path, listening to my inner voice, and freeing myself up to explore and manifest more easily. As for the third outcome, my absolute desire is to create a lasting, positive impact for my clients. That is the most precious of outcomes.

Are you ready to simplify?

By embracing simplicity, we can clear the mental and emotional clutter and remain committed to our paths, no matter how many tempting side roads appear. It’s not about limiting our potential. It’s about opening up to our potential and possibilities, listening confidently to our inner knowing, and staying true to our vision and purpose. When we simplify, we give ourselves the freedom to explore deeply, create meaningfully, and achieve our most cherished goals and desires.

So, as you reflect on your own journey and the goals you wish to achieve, ask yourself: Am I ready to simplify? Am I ready to strip away the unnecessary distractions and focus on the essence of what I want to create in my life? Am I ready to confidently walk the path I’ve created and embrace the journey?

Remember that sometimes the most profound transformations come from the simplest changes and actions. Embrace simplicity, trust your inner voice, and watch as your dreams unfold with clarity and purpose.